Y'all asked for it, so here goes...
"How do you avoid unhealthy snacks and eat clean?"
The short answer is it's definitely a choice.
You're smirking! I have friends smirk at that answer, too, and want to know the secret.
Honestly, there isn't really a secret. For me, I eat to live.
So, how do you eat to live? Make the choice to eat nuts and berries, lean meats and fish, and fresh fruits and veggies.
If my plate's filled with small portions of lean protein, colored veggies, and fruits, I know I'll be filled and that fuel will be clean. After all, that's what you need... fuel. That's eating to live!
I've never had an unhealthy relationship with food. I don't live to eat. Of course, I like certain foods and enjoy a good meal, but I've never craved something so badly that I've had to have it. And you can satisfy those taste buds with healthy, clean choices.
I can usually reason why I shouldn't indulge in a soda (and drink an extra glass of water instead) or why having a piece of leftover pie I made recently for the hubs birthday isn't a good idea, and avoid it altogether (or opt for a cup of greek yogurt with fresh berries).
I understand that isn't easy for everyone. I can only answer how I'm able to do it, and give the tips I've been so eagerly asked about.
So...
A little history first: I've always been a pretty healthy eater, and after having A and breast feeding for what seemed like ALL day, every day for a year, I needed to replenish the nutrients I was giving up.
Getting off the couch to prepare meals was... well, almost non-existent if it meant long prep and cook times for what seemed like the first four months!
It was sometimes easier to grab processed snacks (bagged and frozen foods) than to spend the time to make healthy ones (at least that's how I reasoned it, and I was wrong). I knew this wasn't a good choice as a healthy eater, but maybe I was just lazy too tired.
We've all been there.
I was never much of a fast food lover, either. But when you're over-tired and have a husband who spends A LOT of hours working (especially from March to July), sometimes it becomes a necessity. (It was so hard to prepare a meal with what seemed to be an always hungry baby. I know now that she would've lived, but first-time mom syndrome and guilt said otherwise. It didn't help she wouldn't take a bottle either.) I digress.
I'm not proud, but I did find myself eating out on occasion because it was just easier to have the hubs bring home food after a long day (for both of us).
I woke out of my stupor and up to what I was doing to my body and was passing on to my child (through breast milk) and made the decision – as the balancing act got easier – to get myself back in line. Preparing healthy meals once again became the priority.
I'd fooled myself into believing it had to be hard. It's not! It's actually really easy to eat clean.
"What about the desire to eat cakes, cookies, and chips and drink soda or sugary drinks, Melissa?"
That's a tough one for me to answer. There was a time where I would drink a soda (very rare, but I did) and I can't honestly say I've ever felt an addiction to anything that I couldn't just quit cold turkey. I know, though, for some that it isn't easy, and that's why I say it has to be a choice.
Of course, I live by the rule never to deny yourself. This one's not always straight-forward. You might think, "Okay, I want it so I'll have it," but it can't be an "all-the-time" kind of thing.
So, what if you decide to have these things on special occasions?
What if one special occasion becomes four birthdays, an anniversary, a girl's night out and such in one month? Well, you have to decide. You have to choose what you can live without and what you're willing to accept.
For one person, that might be different. I'd say it all depends on how you gain weight (slow or fast metabolism), what your exercise plan is, and so forth.
For me, I run... a lot, and add in pilates and weight training so I do have wine and indulge in the occasional (gluten-free) (or the rare Heineken I so love) beer, and I even might have a dessert now and again! I'm just aware of what and how much I can indulge.
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Once you've decided to eat clean, and how and when you'll do that, it's easy to find and prepare meals that meet the clean eating standard.
I'm going to list my top 10 favorite snacks here for you.
As for dinners, check out the recipe section of the blog. I'm always putting up things that have been guinea-pigged by some of the pickiest eaters. Most are gluten-free, too, but you can always substitute the gluten-free flours for regular and it will still meet a clean standard.
Also, be on the lookout for my upcoming lunchbox recipes. Easy, clean eating meals that the entire family will love. A lot of 'em are leftovers from dinners and package up quick.
Hungry yet? Grab yourself one of the following snacks. I try to graze throughout the day for two reasons: 1.) It keeps your metabolism working and your blood sugar adjusted so you're not storing fat, and 2.) I can eat smaller meals and not load up on calories in one setting.
10 clean eating snacks that are easy to prepare:
- Red pepper strips and hummus
- Nuts (almonds are my go-to and I always have them in the house in several places... the kitchen table, the kitchen counter, and the den coffee table) and seeds (pumpkin seeds are great for you, tasty, and filling)
- Apple slices and peanut butter
- Lara bars
- Fresh veggies and veggie dip
- Sliced berries
- Homemade trail mix
- Hard boiled egg
- Air-popped popcorn
- Edamame
Happy clean eating!
Keep the questions coming. Another segment with a burning clean eating question coming up next week.
PS... I'm not a nutritionist, nurse, or any other specialist. I do what works for me and my body by following a paleo/gluten-free/clean-eating type of diet and adding exercise. Always do what works for you and/or consult your doctor.